Dating a more attractive man
“Lately, in order to want to sleep with someone, I actually have to them as a person.” He said this as if it were a mind-blowing revelation.
I told him that, at 31, the realization was probably a bit overdue, but I knew what he meant: As one gets older, it becomes harder and harder to be attracted to someone simply because of the way they look.
You may have seen a recent episode of “Girls” on HBO, or perhaps have witnessed an example in your own life or social circle, where one member of a couple is far more attractive than the other. Next, ask yourself how you would feel about being with someone who is a few notches above you in the appearance department.
Just as blonde women are pigeon-holed as being stupid, handsome men are written off as lacking moral fibre.As Ok Cupid observed, the medical term for this is “male pattern madness”.4) Women engage in similar behavioral patterns, just not as extreme. In terms of the people you’ve dated in the past, how attractive would you say they are?As you walk toward your plush red corner booth in the back, you notice that several diners take note of your gorgeous date and follow your date with their eyes all the way to the booth.
This was three years ago and Mickael and I were in a long-distance relationship at the time.